Saturday, March 19, 2016

Happy 7th Birthday Bobby!

Happy Birthday Bobby!!! SEVEN TODAY!!! I knew this day would come, but I felt like it was yesterday when I was holding him thinking this day was so far away!!!



5 days old in this photo


The night he was born



I sort of dropped the ball on planning a party for him this year. We asked him what he wanted for his birthday: a party or something else with the family. He initially said he wanted to go to Legoland with us, then said he just wants legos, and now he's saying he wants a party! (Peer pressure since some of his friends are having a birthday and a party too!) Not sure what we will do - next week is Spring Break and I hate to try and organize a party and have everyone not be able to come. 

Bobby is growing and learning so much right now! First grade has been so exciting. He started the year off only recognizing a few basic words and now he is able to decode sounds and figure out new words! We have to be careful what he sees and hears because of this new skill! HA!

Brooklyn is doing great. I know she could benefit from having a nap on most days after a long full dat at T-K. She is eager to read, so we have been practicing a lot at home with Green Eggs and Ham and The Cat in the Hat.  She despises having me read to her because "she can do it", even though she knows she still needs help with the text. 

Tommy is great too. He's been attending preschool more and more as I take on as many sub assignments as I can squeeze in around the kids. He pees on command but not on his own but this is huge progress compared to where he was just a few months ago. He talks so much, repeats EVERYTHING and loves to play with Bobby and Brooklyn. He's absorbing so much, I feel like he is growing the fastest of all 3 kids.


As we continue to raise the kids, I'm finding I learn something new everyday about the human body and development! Bobby has a case of "shark tooth" - literally an extra adult tooth! He hasn't lost ONE baby tooth yet, and none of his teeth are even wiggling! He was complaining the front tooth was kind of hurting which is being pushed forward by his shark tooth and his other adult teeth.  We had it checked out yesterday and there is nothing they can do until the shark tooth completely comes in his mouth.







I'm on my way to attaining my credential so I can have my own classroom. I have a few tests to pass still, and pending my official acceptance to the credential program I applied to, I'll begin in the fall. In the meantime, (thanks to a supportive friend) I've been substitute teaching.  This has been so much fun thus far (despite some mommy guilt I feel for leaving Tommy at preschool nearly every day!!).  Its challenging because the schools are all so different, behavior management for each teacher is different (and sometimes I infuse my own, and most recently I invested in my own chime/bell - thanks Amazon), and the dynamics of the classroom can vary as well. It is a highly fast paced environment where you have like 15 minutes to get a good idea of whats expected for the day, but all in all the kids are helpful and honest about how the day should go if I need a little help.  The mornings and nights are crazy because I'm sort of "on call" and at just a moments notice I need to be ready to go in the morning - and my kids need to be ready too - - the hardest part! But I enjoy it, the time flies and I've never held a job where I felt like time was flying because I was having FUN at work (although I know one day this excitement may sizzle out.). Everyone has been asking me what grade level I enjoy the most, and I'm not quite sure. I do enjoy the elementary kids simply because they still want to be nice to their teacher. :)


Friday, December 4, 2015

Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas and a few things in between


 Dinner and drinks before heading to Garth Brooks!


The boys


The hot sexy wives ;)


So my mom's living situation recently drastically changed. Derek and I had to find a place for her to live so we bought a mobile home at the 55+ community for her. Here's a few photos of what we put into it - needed new floors (cat pee everywhere ewww), and all new paint on the walls. 




Here's a dresser that was my Aunt's, after she died my uncle said I could have it. I really liked the flower detail but didn't enjoy the color. First I tried to do brown but didn't like the way that was going, and beneath the yellow paint was some white paint...I went with the white paint instead and did this kind of smearing of white paint and ...


The finished product!!! I love this little dresser!!! Its not perfect, but its perfect for me.


On Thanksgiving I drove down to spend some time with my mom who was still living in Clairemont, stopped to see my cousin (to discuss financial matters pertaining to my mom and all this other heavy stuff that just makes me sad to think about still), then headed home to be with the Roed family. A nice day and sort of relaxing...



Love the photo below so much!


Kids picking out our Christmas tree, ha! Where's the candy mom? Can I have cookie mom? Can I go in the bounce house mom? (After we went to the trampoline park, ALL DAY!! agh)






Ta-da!


I like getting our family pictures taken but the cost is hefty so Ive been thinking about silly things I can do at home to capture our family photos. This year I wanted a photo in some cheesy cute Christmas pajamas (thank you Target), just sitting at home enjoying ourselves.  Toward the end of the do-it-yourself photo session Tommy started cracking up laughing in disbelief that the photo was being taken but there was no one pressing the button. As if to say "What the hell is going on?!" We were dying laughing at the end. Funny moment in the books for sure.  

Here are a few pictures of us clowns:




Dying laughing at this moment....


This one made the cut for our card, but I had to edit the stupid thing and erase the hat in the picture - Derek leaves his dumb hat EVERYWHERE!!! (And I forgot to move it!) Ha ha...Oh well, when raising kids what really is perfect anyway? Not much. ;)


Hope you are enjoying the holiday season!!! 





Monday, October 26, 2015

Five

My girl is five. It is so hard to believe sometimes, and especially since I have had some dark days lately with all thats been happening with my family, I feel like I haven't been able to absorb and soak it in that my sweet girl is changing so much. Some days she acts so big and tough, and other days she wants to be cuddled like an infant. :) T-K at school has really pushed her forward which I love.

We went to Disneyland last Wednesday (on her actual birthday, and very last second with still so much to worry about back at home...), and then quickly threw together a birthday party for her this past Saturday. I did reserve Princess Jasmine this year but I guess she was too sick to come. We all still had a great time with a water balloon fight and the pool. :) More pictures to come..



Dressing up this time for our trip to the park...




Oct 16 we went to go see Luke Bryan, another fun concert!!







Monday, October 12, 2015

Camping, Life, and Pumpkins

We went to San Elijo and camped with friends at the end of September. Fantastic. Best time. I love the beach. Celebrated our friends' daughter's first birthday. We had trailer city, tons of canopies and shade. Water was so nice and warm. Cant wait to do it again.


Our trailer (below) in all her glory...





Walking back with donuts and coffee



Babysitting Sadie's brother "Tuff" (Billy Volek's dog). This is where we got Sadie from. He was the biggest lovable dog. Didn't want to see him go...


Celebrating another friend's birthday (Braden, turning 3)

Video of ...?? 


My dad gave me some of his jasmine to plant (its a bigger white flower jasmine), had my little helpers me dig it up yesterday out front...

Yesterday was basically our last free weekend to go pick a pumpkin so we went to Mountain Valley Ranch like we always do. A lot of hot sweaty stinky animal pumpkin fun.